♥ Find a common type of exercise and do it together. Hiking, biking, walking, skiing…

♥ Discuss her goals with her and help her to pursue them.

♥ Wake up early and cook her breakfast.

♥ Write her a love letter and mail it to her.

♥ Pitch in more than normal when the house gets out of control. 

♥ Help the kids with their homework.

♥ Buy her a bath bomb or bubble bath and draw a bath for her. Be sure to supply chocolate, candles and a good book.

♥ Look into her eyes and tell her that she looks pretty.

♥ When she looks harried, ask her what you can do to help and then do it.

♥ Buy her a gift certificate for a pedicure.

♥ Find a common type of exercise and do it together. Hiking, biking, walking, skiing . . .

♥ Encourage him to spend time with his family.

♥ Encourage him to pursue a favorite hobby, even if he hasn’t done it in a long time.

♥ Watch his favorite television show with him.

♥ Discuss his goals with him and help him to pursue them.

♥ Brag about how great he is to your friends.

♥ When he leaves for work, tell him that you will miss him.

♥ Send him encouraging texts at work when you know he is working on a difficult project.

♥ Buy him a new shirt because you know it will look good on him.

♥ Ask him for help with something you know he is great at (but you are not).